Plan for Abstinence

 

Pointing Teens Toward Purity
by Carl Caton

Idea #1 - Form a team... appoint a leader.
Dad should ultimately be responsible.

Wives should support, respect, and help (him).
Scheduling Intimacy & 47 Books on Physical Intimacy 
from a Christian Perspective

Confidential help for men who need help with issues of lust, pornography, and other "affairs of the heart":
Be Broken Ministries

God's Design for Sex Series

The Story of Me: Book 1

Before I Was Born: Book 2

What's the Big Deal: Why God Cares About Sex: Book 3

Facing the Facts: The Truth About Sex and You: Book 4

Purity Retreats

Passport 2 Purity 
from Family Life
Get away with your preteen or teenager for a one-on-one adventure of a lifetime! Passport2Purity will guide you and your son or daughter through biblical principles for life's most difficult challenges; including dating and those other difficult topics to discuss. Let Dennis and Barbara Rainey lead you through an encouraging do-it-yourself retreat full of discovery, communication and fun. <more...>

Preparing for Adolescence
from Focus on the Family
Explaining the changes of puberty can seem daunting. These CDs bring the conversational warmth of Dr. Dobson straight to you and your adolescent. Among the many topics reviewed are the physical and emotional changes, peer pressure, the meaning of love, communication with parents, and more. <more...>

Purity and Abstinence Pledges

The Silver Ring Thing

Aim for Success - Provides school programs

True Love Waits - part of Lifeway and the SBC. Frpm the TLW Pledge Card:

MY COMMITMENT
Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate, and my future children to a lifetime of purity including sexual abstinence from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship.

Purity Rings and Jewelry:
Read this article (Purity Rings) about one family's experience. Some artists and retailers:

http://www.factory79.com/

http://www.scripturejewelry.com/

http://www.jamesavery.com/

http://www.bobsiemon.com/

Creating a "passage" event for your son.
Raising a Modern Day Knight

My Passage Ceremony for Chad
My son is turning thirteen this week. Unlike most birthdays, this one will be special. I'm inviting five men to join him at a special birthday dinner at a restaurant. During our meal, each man will have a few moments to share some things they admire about Chad. And when we're done, we will do something that will change this young man's life forever. We'll say, "Chad, you're a man now". <more...>

Father-Daughter Dates
by Dionna Sanchez
I have a neighbor girl who goes on dates with her dad. When I first heard this I thought, "What a wonderful idea!" She shared with me how special these times with her dad were. He would call her up from work <more...>

What to do about dating?

Dating Contracts - Found on pages 126, 127, and 128 of Parenting Today's Adolescent by Dennis & Barbara Rainey

Resources that protect your family from offensive media:

Google SafeSearch

SpamArrest

BSafe Internet Filters

I Am Big Brother
See everything your family is doing online: instant messaging, chat, email, web sites viewed, keystroke recording, and screen captures.

Net Nanny
Stops illicit material, limits time spent Online, stops many different kinds of applications from communicating on the Internet.

TV Guardian

Christian Home Page - A simple, fast loading page that incorporates Google SafeSearch along with links to popular internet destinations. 

Family Covenant - The most meaningful, binding agreements get put in writing. Now that can include a biblically based family standard for entertainment. Download a copy of Plugged In's "Family Covenant for God-honoring Media Choices." 

Plugged-In 
from Focus on the Family
Plugged-in from Focus on the Family seeks to help parents and youth leaders 'guide teens through the world of popular youth culture'. The site provides reviews for film, music, television, and more. Certainly a great place to be informed... all with the trust in knowing Focus on the Family stands behind it.

Family Movie Review
PeopleOfFaith.com resource provided by Christian Spotlight with easy-to-understanding "Moral Rating" and "Movie Quality" graphics.

Encouraging "Alternatives" to Media

365 TV-Free Activities
by Steve & Ruth Bennett (One Cent at Amazon)

52 Family Time Ideas
by Timothy Smith

7 Traits of Parents Who Make Wise Media Choices 
Bob Waliszewski shares seven characteristics of parents who make wise entertainment choices for their children.

Family Friendly Movies:
Top picks from The Dove Foundation
Top 10 Family Friendly Movies of 2004
Top 10 Family Friendly Movies of 2005
Top 10 Family Friendly Movies of 2006

International TV Turn Off Week
- April 23-29, 2007

Other Good Books

Every Young Woman's Battle: Guarding Your Mind, Heart, and Body in a Sex-Saturated World

13 Ways to Spend Time With Your Teenage Daughter
by Rachel Paxton
The older my daughter gets the more it's sinking in that I don't have much time left to spend with her! She's turning 16 in a couple of months, and I know I won't be seeing her much after she gets her driver's <more...>

13 MORE Fun Things to Do With Your Teenage Daughter
by Carl Caton
Maybe you just read the article by Rachel Paxton about finding fun and interesting activities.  This has certainly been a challenge I've faced as well.  I've always spent massive amounts of time with my daughter, literally from the day she was born.  But things are changing.  Her interests are changing. <more...>

How do I teach my children about sex so that they will stay pure until they are married?
by Dennis Rainey
Talking about sex may be the single most powerful way you can enter into the lives of your children. Why? Because sex education means more than teaching them the facts of human reproduction. <more...>

The Sex Lives of Christian Teens
by Jennifer M. Parker
On the radio, popular songs declare the thrills of casual sex. On the Internet, pop-up windows beckon Web surfers to erotic destinations. The fashion world touts midriff-baring designs, while prime-time TV rolls out one sexual innuendo after another. <more...>

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